Ok. So not one dream but many. I have this lover Clayton who I had an intense sexual affair with over 2 years, and he is quite often in my dreams. Sometimes it is about him, but other times he makes these cameo appearances. For instance I drive by the bus stop & he is there, or I talk to people in my dream & they mention him. It's kind of nice and sad at the same time because I miss him. Maybe when I stop missing him he will disappear?